IN MEMORIAM

By Fred Weissberg

On Tuesday April 8, 2008 the world and the sword community lost a great friend, Mr. Ralph Bell.  Ralph passed away at the age of 64.  Ralph was my partner in the sword business for more than ten years and my best personal friend for longer than I can remember.

Ralph is survived by his wife, Theresa, daughter, Renee, and son, Garrett.  He also leaves behind two grandchildren, Davie and Cooper. 

Anyone who met Ralph would surely agree that he was the kind of man who left an unforgettable impression.  He was outgoing, friendly, knowledgeable, and giving.  He had been collecting swords of all kinds since he was twelve and had built up a wealth of knowledge that will be irreplaceable.  Ralph was the kind of person who was giving of his knowledge, asking nothing in return. 

In the world of Japanese swords where objects of great beauty can also command great value, there are individuals of less than “sterling” reputation. Through jealousy or greed they often cast a negative shadow.  Ralph was like a burst of sunshine burning away the shadows.  If a complete novice stumbled across a great sword, Ralph was genuinely happy for him.  He was always ready with an opinion and guidance for the novice or seasoned collector.

On our sword adventures, Ralph and I traveled from Japan to England to Israel and many stops in between.  We met great people, ate great food, and shared lifetime experiences for which I will be forever grateful.  One thing about traveling with Ralph is that I never had to worry about keeping up my end of the conversation.  Ralph would entertain all around him for hours with an endless supply of stories and anecdotes from his life experiences.  Ralph would often ask me, “Did I ever tell you about the time I was working for the phone company and….?”  I would cut him off and say, “Yes you have.” (because he really had, many times).  Anyway, without missing a beat, he would continue with the story.  But you know, I never really minded.

The response from the sword community to Ralph’s passing has been nothing short of amazing.  I have received emails and phone calls from around the world. I have always felt that the true measure of a man and his life is the size of the footprint he leaves behind.  I can say with all certainty that Ralph’s was truly huge.  The world was a better place with him in it and he will be missed.

The next time someone comes up to you and asks how you are, answer them in the words of our dear friend Ralph and say, “Every day’s a picnic”.